放手

放手... 都是我们现在正在努力学习着的人生另一堂课!!! 难学, 可是学到了以后,那又将成为我们人生篇章当中另一页精彩的内容了 :)

特别献于my dear ah bee, ah zanne and ewa, haha, even though we all now are struggling in different problems at different place. Well, deep down in our heart, we too know that we'll pray to god for giving each other the bless and strength to go thru every hardship in each life :) and i know tat we all will be fine at the end as long as we didnt give up. Thus, there is always a promising future lies ahead of us. Look forward...there is always a hope :) 加油, 加油, 加油噢 :)

Everyday is a blessing day that God gives it to us to enjoy it :p So, we got to use his blessing to enjoy every thing, even though it might be the thing that we rather don't ever want to face it, but believe me, it will be a bless for us when we over it :)

放手, 不等于不關心, 只是我不能代替別人做事.
放手, 不等于从此不管, 而是明白我不该控制他人.
放手, 就是不要提供所有答案, 让别人从结果中学习.
放手, 就是承认无能为力, 因为结果如何不在于我.
放手, 就是不再试图改变或责备他人, 因我只能改变自己.
放手, 就是关心而非操心.
放手, 就是不要替别人补救, 只是表示支持.
放手, 就是不要批评, 让对方保有尊严.
放手, 就是不要操纵结果, 让别人自行决定.
放手, 就是不要过分保护, 让别人面对现实.
放手, 就是不要否定, 只是接纳.
放手, 就是不要唠叨, 斥责和争辩,而是反思已过予以改正.
放手, 就是不强求凡事照自己的意思, 而是接受现状, 珍惜每一刻.
放手, 就是不再批评或勉强别人, 而是努力成为自己理想中的人.
放手, 就是不为过去感到遗憾, 而是继续成长, 为未来而活.
放手, 就是少害怕一点, 多爱一点.